I have, unfortunately many times seen cases where young children talking and responding to their parents rudely and impolitely especially their mothers in the open public. I was taken by surprise when I see this for I would never imagine something like this from a young 7-8 years old kids whom are in their early childhood, still feeling a little nervous in their early stage of getting engaged in more formalized academic educational schools and student lives now.
Raising children is never an easy job, however it is one of the most challenging jobs in the world for it is a lot harder to develop a kind and polite child first of all. It takes a lot of hardship and patient with a lot of dignity to raise a good child with quality attributes and characteristics successfully which is so difficult to be found in today’s society no more.
Parents of today have much lesser time spending with their children as they are normally tied up with their office work and social activities. Limited attention is rendered on their kid since early age. The responsibility of bringing up these children normally goes to the nannies or their grand-parents who lives with them or stay near-by.
It takes a lot of additional effort and go for the extra miles to be successful in raising an obedient child with good manners. This does not come by itself naturally for sure. In order for them to learn to be thoughtful, the parents need to firstly understand the fear and anxiety of her young ones, and be supportive in what they wish to achieve. Being supportive provides her the courage to continue moving forward for her goals.
Kids who love to befriend to other kids or their same age love to share their stuffs as well, be these are their latest toy set, books or coolest computer gadgets. These types of children will grow up happier and full of empathy as compared to those with single parent, or being born the only child in the family. As children learn by example, parents need to lead them correctly. Show them the importance of kindness and that kindness is well appreciated by many. Point out the consequences of being cruel and selfish, for this type of people will not be liked by his friends for his bad attitudes and characteristics.
Being kindness was a norm between human beings, living together in this place called earth. However, things have changed so much nowadays that people rarely show any kindness to one another anymore. It is essential for us to bring back the quality of love and kindness among the man-kind if we really wish to achieve a peaceful, kind and productive society with people being showered with lots of love and care from those around them.
Last but not least, teach your kids to be kind and polite to all the people around them since they are small, for everything take time to show their effect, and learning from young age is definitely better than having to correct them when they are older, for it takes a lot more effort than you would imagine to change young children’s behavior when they reached their teens. Teach and guide them while they are still small is one of the most effective ways of bringing up your obedient and polite teenagers.